GET YOUR SPARKLE BACK
Your breakup glow-up starts now!
Move from down in the dumps to free and fabulous with a step-by-step process that feels so much better than super-spy deep scrolling through your ex’s Instagram feed and spinning your head through zillions of possible scenarios of “what went wrong!”
Any of these describe your current situation?
You’re feeling completely depleted after your heartbreak: tired, drained, lacking energy to do the things you used to love. What even lights you up any more? You can’t be bothered to remember. The uninhibited belly laughs and magical moments that used to bring you joy feel like a faint memory, and many of those moments are tied up with your ex– a person you’re trying so hard (often unsuccessfully) NOT to think about right now.
You’re trying to busy yourself with anything you can, but nothing seems to help. Buying yourself a hot new outfit, hitting the bars and pounding margaritas with your girlfriends, giving the dating apps yet another shot (even though this is your third time downloading and deleting them in the last week). The temporary relief from these tactics wears off way too quickly, and you’re back where you started– lonely, frustrated, sad, stuck.
You’re consumed with thoughts of your ex– who they’re with, what they’re doing, how they seem to be FINE when you’re feeling like a melty poo puddle in the middle of a sh*t storm. And giiirl– social media isn’t helping. You’re sitting on your hands, trying desperately not to open Instagram. Suddenly, you awake from a blackout and you’re on your ex’s cousin’s barber’s business account like a government spy trying to figure out if that’s a photo of the back of your ex’s head. You know it’s a waste of your time, but you can’t seem to stop it.
You've been listening to podcasts, watching YouTube videos, reading articles, trying mediation (because some therapist on a podcast said so), but nothing seems to move the needle. You know you’re supposed to be on this “healing journey” or whatever, but what actually does that mean? And how long is this journey exactly? And will there be snacks at the end? Or at least a good night’s sleep?
You invested so much into your relationship and you can’t even imagine starting over, but being alone and single? You really don’t know which is worse.
You’re craving solace, peace, and (dare I say) happiness again. You want to feel like yourself again. You want a day where your ex doesn’t cross your mind. You want to feel that little thing called hope. Hope that your journey to love hasn’t come to a screeching halt and is, instead, entering a new chapter.
It’s time for a new kind of healing journey. One that is pleasurable, easeful, and maybe even a little bit FUN, especially if you’re a big personal growth nerd like me.
The Secret? The Sparkle System!
“I can’t wait to go on a healing journey today!”
This whole “healing” thing can feel daunting, arduous, ambiguous (and other long words that I probably have to Google the spelling of).
Worry not, my friend! I’ve got you covered.
Yes, Get Your Sparkle Back will give you some powerful tools for moving through your pain and feeling your feelings. Those are not to be overlooked– feel it to heal it, as they say.
But the Sparkle System is so much more than a breakup recovery course.
The Sparkle System is a one-of-a-kind framework for pleasurably creating your next chapter while, in the process, healing your broken heart. That’s right, I said pleasurably.
In fact, the goal is to bring as much pleasure to the process as possible.
You may even… get this (!)… forget that you’re healing. Wouldn’t that be great!?
And (MEGA BONUS) The Sparkle System is not just applicable to breakups. You will be able to implement this framework and all the tools inside it into any challenging chapter of your life.
It’s possible to feel like yourself again. It’s possible to create the sparkliest life you can imagine. Get Your Sparkle Back will guide you every step of the way.
“Thank you, Paige, for creating a space for true healing. I hope more women are able to see what I’ve done and can get the support they need.”
“I’m now feeling and giving permission for my grief, seeing the spots in which I was still operating from codependency, and feeling OK with setting boundaries with my ex to give me space to heal.”
Introducing:
The ultimate step-by-step process to heal your broken heart and reignite your inner fire.
Your sparkle is your power, your fierce glow, the fire within you that makes you totally magnetic. It’s your sparkle that your last partner fell in love with. It’s your sparkle that your next partner is going to fall in love with.
But most importantly, it’s your sparkle that makes you love yourself!
The Get Your Sparkle Back process has been curated and developed to gently support you in alchemizing this heartbreak, so you can step into becoming the sparkliest version you’ve ever been.
After going through the Get Your Sparkle Back process, you will have:
✔ More sex appeal and juicy magnetism than ever before (careful, world, this woman is highly flammable 🔥)
✔ A deeply fulfilling life that is built on a foundation of self-love (not on the love of another person)
✔ A fresh (and downright empowering) perspective on being single
✔ Tons of tools to help you move through any challenging period in your life (relocating, a career transition, losing a friendship, or any other form of heartbreak)
✔ A loving connection with your body and your spirit– you are one-of-a-kind, honey, and that’s no cap (Am I too old to use the word cap?).
✔ A clear understanding of your own unhealthy patterns in relationships, and what to do differently in the future.
✔ BOUNDARIES, baby!
✔ People around you who love and care for you. Community is KEY, my friend!
✔ Oodles of personal power (think: inner strength + the ability to inspire others) that will help you create your next chapter– writing a poetry book, becoming a personal trainer, finally going back to school, taking that solo trip to Bali. The choice is yours!
✔ Peace! I know, I know, it’s so hard to believe that you might actually live a life without obsessing over your ex. But it’s SO possible!
WARNING: you may not recognize the woman you are about to become.
What’s Inside
There are four glorious, pleasure-filled steps to The Sparkle System. Each one is packed with examples and tools that can seamlessly integrate into your life. For the girlies who like details, here’s the breakdown:
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Imagine what it would feel like to do nothing and NOT feel guilty about it! It’s actually a crucial component to this entire process: resting…pleasurably. In this section of your recovery journey, we’ll cover:
⭐ Why the traditional “stages of grief” are NOT helpful, and what actually WILL help your heart (AKA the Sparkle System)
⭐ Why you’re so damn tired right now that by the time you get dressed in the morning, you’re ready to crawl back into bed (hint: it’s SO normal). I’ll share my secret to building rest into your daily routine (because life keeps moving and we still got bills to pay)
⭐ Why focusing on your ex is keeping you down and what to do instead to replenish your energy
⭐ What it actually means to feel your feelings and what it looks like in real life (yes, I will be demo-ing all the tools/practices I use to feel my feelings)
⭐ The most powerful strategies for working with your feelings, specifically the ones we try to avoid (sadness, grief, guilt, resentment, anger, rage– all of them!)
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They say if you don’t learn from the past, you’re doomed to repeat it. Oof, that lesson took me too long to learn. And I don’t know about you, but I definitely don’t want to repeat ANY of my past relationships. In this section, we’ll cover:
⭐ How to use The Sparkle Wheel (my signature blueprint) to take personal inventory of your healing and guide you along the way.
⭐ The six areas of your life that need the most attention in a breakup, and how to prioritize those areas
⭐ Why ruminating on the past is NOT in service to you, and how to reflect without rumination
⭐ The most empowering 3-part framework for looking at your part and cleaning up your side of the street (seriously, this will blow your mind).
⭐ What mindset is the biggest trigger of pain in a breakup, and how to completely dismantle that mindset.
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Time to reignite that inner light and turn the fire up! Yes, your sparkle comes from the inside out. At this point, you’ve nourished your inner self, and it’s time to go sprinkle your sparkle (I promise, this is the only time I’ll use that phrase) out in the world.
⭐ Why suffering in silence is why you feel like you’re drowning, and how to feel less alone in this process.
⭐ How you may be inadvertently depleting your Sparkle Bank and which activities will replenish your bank, making you RICH with sparkle.
⭐ My secret weapon to conquering my breakups (this one took me way too many breakups to learn, but once I did, it changed everything).
⭐ What the heck boundaries have to do with being an irresistible HOTTIE, and how to actually use them.
⭐ The ultimate practice for falling madly in love…with yourself, so you become a turned-on, radiant goddess.
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Just when you thought you couldn’t shine any brighter, there’s more! The final piece of the Sparkle System is to give yourself space to process it. You are creating a new way of being, and you need time to adjust to this new reality. Imagine this stage like going for a walk after devouring a ten-course tasting menu. In this section, we’ll cover:
⭐ Why pleasure is an essential component of your healing journey, and how to add more of it to your life (Yes, I said it. Pleasure is KEY!)
⭐ What self-worth has to do with your breakup and tools for refilling your worthiness cup
⭐ How to create powerful rituals and practices that work for your life and sustain your recovery long after you’ve forgotten about what’s-his-face
⭐ How spirituality can be your greatest breakup companion, even if you have years of religious trauma that make you want to run away from anything g-o-d related
⭐ Other areas of your life that could use some more Sparkle and how to apply this system to any challenging situation
How It Works
This means:
It’s completely virtual. You can log into the online portal from anywhere in the world. Whether you’re hunkering down in your cozy bedroom with a warm cup of Chai or jetsetting off to a retreat in Bali, you can access these lessons no matter where your healing journey takes you.
It’s self-paced. You choose how fast or slow you want to move through the lessons. No two breakups are alike. Your path to healing is going to look very different from someone else’s, and even different from your past breakups. Be gentle with yourself a go at your own pace.
If you have any questions about the material, there is a handy form inside the portal where you can submit your questions.
Paige will record a video every week to answer your questions. Those videos will be released in the portal, where you’ll have access to watch them at any time, plus any previous videos.
Get Your Sparkle Back is designed to work with your life. In your own space, at your own pace.
By the end of this program, you could be:
⭐ Spending slow mornings sipping coffee in your pajamas, journaling, and getting ready to take on the world.
⭐ Feeling so free and expressed in your dating life that you’ve decided you’re not ready to settle down just yet.
⭐ Falling deeply in love with yourself that you’re having too much fun with yourself to date right now.
⭐ Living a life abundant with the most nourishing friendships, true sisters who see you, know you, and love you.
⭐ Creating an intimate, connected relationship with a partner that is safe and loving.
⭐ Finally taking up the hobbies you kept putting off to focus on your relationship.
⭐ Feeling so worthy of a partnership that you’re setting boundaries left and right and aren’t willing to settle for less than you desire.
⭐ Dancing, singing, writing, painting, traveling, throwing dinner parties, building a cabin in the woods…whatever makes you truly sparkle.
Your most important relationship desperately needs your attention!
A wild night out with friends only lasts so long, a hot new dress will eventually end up in the back of the closet, hobbies come and go. At the end of the day, after the buzz wears off, it’s only you and yourself. That’s a relationship that will stand the test of time. In this season of your life, the greatest investment you can make is in that relationship, the one you will never lose.
JUST $295 TO GET YOUR SPARKLE BACK
Meet Your Instructor
PAIGE WILHIDE
Breakup Coach, Speaker, Performer
I’m Paige, a breakup coach for big-hearted people who love love. After a heart-shattering breakup with the man of my dreams in 2015, I was desperate for answers. Upon a friend’s recommendation, I walked into a weekend personal development course that would ultimately change my life.
During that weekend, I realized I was the common denominator in all of my failed relationships (an excruciating pill to swallow). I had been putting my partners on a pedestal, prioritizing their needs over mine, and I was terrified to even communicate what I wanted (can you relate?). In addition, I was disconnected from my body, gulping down nightly glasses of Pinot Noir to numb out, and I felt so deeply alone.
Once it became alarmingly clear how I had given away my power, I set out on a journey to defeat my bad habits, say YES to my desires, and fall madly in love with ME.
That’s when I started writing.
I put pen-to-paper (more accurately, finger-to-keyboard), and I documented my journey, one breakup at a time. Eventually, that writing became a script, which evolved into a one-woman show. I have since toured that show internationally, performing over thirty times, winning numerous awards, and helping hundreds of broken-hearted people heal their hearts through the comedy and wisdom of the show.
Through that journey, I found my sparkle! Now, I do the same for other people who are struggling through heartbreak. It makes me sparkle to see you sparkle!
FAQs
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A super fresh online portal where you have access to all the modules, worksheets, guided meditations, videos, and more! Everything is right there in one place.
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You sure do! As soon as you say YES to this program, you be able to access all of the sparkly content inside. You get to work through it at your own pace. Your healing starts now!
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Of course! The internet is full of snake oil salesmen trying to make a quick buck (Ugh, I hate those guys). Since we don’t know each other…yet, I get why you’d be a little skeptical. To put all your apprehensions at ease, I have included a 30-day money-back guarantee. If you are not well on your way to shining your brightest light in 30 days, I’ll refund you. No questions asked.
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Yes! This is a beta round of Get Your Sparkle Back, which means you get a great price AND you get to contribute to the content through your questions. I’ve created a built-in form (in the portal) where you can submit your questions. I will answer them weekly in a recorded video. You’ll also have access to all videos I have previously recorded.
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Not with that mindset (mindset, by the way, is a key piece of this program and we go DEEP into this topic)! Your beliefs create your reality. So, if you believe it won’t work for you, it probably won’t. You are personally responsible for creating the life you want to live. Now THAT’S a sparkly mindset!
